There was a time when people relished in the use of their vocabulary. This golden era existed between the invention of the printing press and the advent of television. Now, with text messages becoming a preferred mode of communication, gone forever are the days when a clever phrasing could light up a room. Vocabulary words are only useful for the GRE’s, and anyone that actually enjoys using them is either a rapper or a douche bag. Rappers tend to love words, and savor the opportunity to get crafty with them. Douche bags like to impress people with their vocabulary, always a bit worried that someone will ask them to define a word they just used (at best, they’ll usually be able to explain it in context).
I’ve started to enjoy words more lately. Since I’m not a rapper, I have to assume that it makes me kind of a douche. And I’m OK with this. But one thing I’m not OK is the use of the word “really”.
- In actual truth or fact
- Truly; genuinely
- An exclamation of dismay, doubt or surprise
You’ll notice that the last definition is the most common these days among my generation:
It’s not the first one that bothers me as much as the second one. The first one certainly falls under the umbrella of “an exclamation of dismay, doubt or surprise,” but the second is kind of different. It’s hard for me to put my finger on it, but it’s kind of “shame on you” mixed with “I’ve had enough”. Perhaps it’s just the third definition, “indeed”. All I know is that a lot of people are taking the easy road with this word, and then calling it a day. Once the word “really” is broken out, there’s no need to expand or articulate any further.
If they don’t get it then…I mean…really?